And now you ask in your heart, "How shall we distinguish that which is good in pleasure from that which is not good?"
Go to your fields and your gardens, and you shall learn that it is the pleasure of the bee to gather honey of the flower,
But it is also the pleasure of the flower to yield its honey to the bee.
For to the bee a flower is a fountain of life,
And to the flower, the giving and receiving of pleasure is a need and ecstasy.
....be in your pleasures like the flowers and the bees.
- Khalil Gibran "The Prophet"